Saturday, November 22, 2025

Waiting in Wonder - Ideas For Observing The Season of Advent
-Stir Up Sunday / First Sunday of Advent

WAITING IN WONDER: IDEAS FOR OBSERVING AND CELEBRATING ADVENT 2025

The lovely season of Advent begins on Sunday, November 30, and so beginning today and then again on Monday, Wednesday and Saturday of next week, I will be posting ideas for observing and celebrating this lovely season. Derived primarily from my archives and with some updated, ideas, recipes and resources, these posts will provide you with everything you need to observe and celebrate the season n as await with wonder for the arrival of our Lord and Savior. So whether you are familiar with  The Liturgical Year, or if this is all new to you, I pray that these simple devotionals, recipes and crafts will deepen your understand and love for this most beautiful of seasons of which Advent is but the beginning!

STIR UP SUNDAY
Sunday, November 23, 2025
(or alternatively, Saturday, November 29, 2025
The Night Before Advent)

Stir up our hearts, O Lord, to make ready the way of thine only begotten Son, 
 so that by His coming we may be enabled to serve Thee with pure minds. 

 Amen  

The last Sunday before Advent is Stir Up Sunday, the day when, traditionally, families gather together to prepare the Christmas pudding.

The day does not actually get its name from “stirring the pudding”; it gets its name from the Book of Common Prayer. The Collect of the Day for the last Sunday before Advent reads, “Stir up, we beseech thee, O Lord, the wills of the faithful people.” However, since Victorian times is has become associated with the rather lovely custom of preparing for Christmas together by making the Christmas pudding, which was an essential part of most British Christmas dinners.

The Christmas pudding as we know it is said to have been introduced to Britain by Prince Albert, consort of Queen Victoria, however it is thought that a version of the pudding was actually introduced from Germany by George I, sometimes known as “the pudding king”, in 1714.

The pudding is typically prepared well in advance, 5 weeks before Christmas, and then reheated and lit on Christmas Day itself. 

Most puddings will contain dried fruit, prunes and dates (often soaked in brandy), candied peel, mixed spice, treacle, suet, eggs, breadcrumbs and dark brown sugar. Traditionally there would be 13 ingredients in all, to represent Jesus and his disciples. Most families have a favorite recipe that is often handed down over the generations. Sometimes silver coins are added to mixture, and anyone who finds one when eating the pudding is said to receive health, wealth and happiness in the coming year.

On Stir Up Sunday, families gather together to mix the pudding. Each member of the family takes a turn in stirring the mixture whilst making a wish. The pudding is stirred from east to west, in honour of the Magi (Wise Men) who came from the east to visit the baby Jesus. It’s also a good time to enjoy a cup of festive mulled wine or cider.

On Christmas Day the pudding has its own ritual. It is topped with a sprig of holly to represent Jesus’ crown of thorns. A little warm brandy is then carefully poured over it and lit. It is then carried proudly, alight and flaming to the table to be served with brandy butter and cream or hot custard. 

If the thought of a flaming pudding is bit overwhelming, you can easily opt to make a cake instead, and lighting it up with candles is a perfectly suitable alternative to flaming liquor. The only drawback to making a cake instead of pudding, is that a cake won’t last until Christmas day and taste very good. But if you want to celebrate Stir Up Sunday with your family, consider making this the day you all get together to decorate the tree, and wouldn’t it be festive to serve a nice pot of your family’s favorite soup for dinner and this lovely cake for dessert?

Orange Cardomom Bundt Cake
Ingredients

For the cake;
Cooking spray
3 cups plus 1 tablespoon all purpose flour
2 cups sugar
1 tablespoon baking powder
2 teaspoons ground cardamom
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/3 teaspoon salt
3/4 cup fresh orange juice
2/3 cup vegetable oil
1 tablespoon grated orange rind
2 teaspoons grated lemon rind
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
3 large eggs

For the glaze;
1 cup powdered sugar
4 1/2 teaspoons orange juce
1/2 teaspoon fresh lemon juice

Toppings 
Sliced Oranges
Cranberried
Star Anise

Instructions
Preheat oven to 350.

To prepare care, coat bundt pan with cooking spray; dust with 1 tablespoon flour. Set aside.

Combine flour, sugar, baking powder, cardamom, cinnamon and salt in a large bowl. Make a well in the center of the mixture. Add 1/4 cup of orange juice, vegetable oil, grated orange rind, grated lemon rind, vanilla and eggs to flour mixture; beat with a mixer until well combined, occasionally scraping sides of bowl.

Spoon batter into prepared cake pan, spreading evenly. Bake at 350 for 50 to 55 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in center comes out clean. Cool in the pan for 5 minutes on a wire rack. Remove from pan.
To prepare glaze, combine 1 cup of powdered sugar, 4 1/2 teaspoons orange juice, and lemon juice in a small bowl, stirring well with a whisk. Drizzle glaze over warm cake; and decorate with orange slices, cranberries and star anise. Cool cake completely on wire rack.  Insert candles and light it up!

The Season of Advent, which is the first in the The Liturgical Year, begins on the last Sunday of the month. Advent, and The Liturgical Year, or as I like to refer to it, The Year of the Lord, are precious to me and something I have observed individually and with my family for over a decade. Though I was not raised with the knowledge of The Liturgical Year, discovering it and incorporating it into my own faith has transformed my life. I'll share more about that in future posts, but for now I wanted to let you know about another series of posts I'll be writing and sharing every week of November, probably on Wednesday though this week I'm a day late.

FIRST SUNDAY OF ADVENT
Sunday, December 3, 2023

Shhhh
An expected silence, a hushed anticipation
as if the very galaxy is holding its breath.

There are some truths even the stars know,
like darkness, like loneliness,
And how the nights can be a living thing.

And how once, long ago,
the night waited in wonder
along with the darkness and the loneliness,
for the sound of a baby’s cry.

For the miraculous to come down
to the earth mundane.

- LUCINDA HYNETT 

 
INTRODUCTORY HYMN
Missa Ad Te Levavi
Listen here.

Introit: To you, my God, I lift my soul, I trust in you; let me never come to shame. Do not let my enemies laugh at me. No one who waits for you is ever put to shame.

- Psalm 25:1-3 (Roman Missal)

Ad te levavi animam meam: Deus meus in te confido, non erubescam: necque irrideant me inimici mei: etenim universi qui te exspectant, non confundentur.

Ps. Vias tuas, Domine, demonstra mihi: et semitas tuas edoce me.(Graduale Romanum).

THE READING OF THE WORD AND THE LIGHTING OF THE ADVENT WREATH CANDLE
First Sunday of Advent Readings:

Isaiah 9:2, 6–7
“The people walking in darkness
    have seen a great light;
on those living in the land of deep darkness
    a light has dawned.
For to us a child is born,
    to us a son is given,
    and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
    Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
    Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Of the greatness of his government and peace
    there will be no end.
He will reign on David’s throne
    and over his kingdom,
establishing and upholding it
    with justice and righteousness
    from that time on and forever.
The zeal of the Lord Almighty
    will accomplish this.” (NIV)

Following the scripture reading, one of the children lights the first candle, The Candle of Hope, and reads the bible verse and the leads everyone in reading the poem together.



We can have hope because God is faithful and will keep the promises he made to us. Our hope comes from God.
- Romans 15:12-13



THE CANDLE OF HOPE
Light the advent candle one, 

now the waiting has begun.

We have started on our way,

time to think of Christmas Day.



Candle, candle burning bright,

shining in the cold winter night.

Candle, candle burning bright,
fill our hearts with Christmas light.

HYMN
Come Thou Long Expected Jesus (Full Choir and very beautiful)
Come Thoug Long Expected Jesus (Sung by Meredith Andrews, and perhaps easier to learn by listening to this version if ou want to sing along)

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HAND CRAFTS
ORANGE AND CRANBERRY GARLAND
Oranges, a fruit once reserved for those with a high social status, has long been a symbol of prosperity. And with its bright golden skin, has likewise been symbolic of the sun and the light. Shopkeepers in mid evil times would place them decoratively in windows in the dark winer months, a reminder that the light and warmth would soon return.

So when we read in Isaiah of "the people in darkness have seen a great light", and that "He will reign over David's throne", it is fitting then that the orange in this craft is symbolic of Christ himself, the cranberries with their deep red hue, foretelling the blood that He would shed for the forgiveness of our sins.

As we make and look upon this garland, it serves as a constant reminder of Christ our King and His great love and sacrifice for us.

4-5 oranges
1 bag of fresh cranberries (12 oz)
Bakers twine or Jute Twine
Cookie sheet
Parchment paper or silicone baking mat

Drying the Oranges:
Oranges
Parchment Paper
Cookie Sheet
Start by preheating your oven to 220 degrees and slice your oranges about 1/2 inch thick.
Place the oranges onto parchment paper or a silicone mat on a baking sheet and bake in the oven for 3 hours.
Check every hour to make sure they aren’t turning brown. They are done when they are dried and translucent in color.
Remove from the oven and let cool to room temperature.

Drying the Cranberries:
Cranberries
Water
Pot
Parchment Paper
Cookie Sheet

Put a large pot on the stove with enough water to cover the cranberries. Bring the water to a boil. Put the washed cranberries in a bowl. Then pour the boiling water over the cranberries. Leave the bowl in a safe place, and let the cranberries sit. You will hear the skins pops, don’t leave the berries in the water for more than 5 to 10 minutes, the berries will then be ready.

Drain the water and spread the cranberries in a single layer on a cookie sheet. Then put them in the freezer for two hours. The freezing process helps the berries dry faster.

Remove the cranberries from the freezer and place them on a cookie sheet lined with parchment paper. Turn on your oven to the lowest possible temperature. Put your cranberries in the oven and allow them to dry which can take 5 to 7 hours. Take the time to turn them every 30 minutes to help the drying process. There will be some that get a little darker than others and some that you will have to pull apart after they dry.

For the Garland

4-5 oranges sliced 1/2 inch thick
1 12 oz bag cranberries

Slice the oranges into 1/2 inch slices and lay on parchment paper on a baking sheet. Bake at 220 degrees for 3 hours. Check every hour to make sure they aren't turning brown. They oranges are done once they are dry and translucent in color.
 Let the oranges cool to room temperature.


Thread your needle with bakers twine or jute twine and thread through the top part of the orange then thread in your cranberries. You can string them in any pattern you desire. I typically string 4-6 cranberries to one orange, but feel free to use any pattern you like. You can make the length as long or short as you desire and depending on how you plan to use it. For a mantel, draped over. winter, or as a garland for a larger tree, you would obviously need longer strands.


Other variations on this theme include adding popcorn to the strand, the white kernels symbolic of purity and the washing away of our sins by the blood of Christ.  You can add them to the oranges and cranberries, or make a cranberry and popcorn garland.

There are a number of ways to use oranges and cranberries in your observance this week, you could also try one of these ideas.

- Make orange bird seed ornaments and hang from the trees outside.
- Or these lovely citrus candles, inspired by my friend, Dawn.
- This cranberry, orange and clove stovetop potpourri is sure to leave your house smelling cozy and welcoming!
- And finally, why not make a loaf of this cranberry orange pound cake or a batch of these white chocolate cranberry orange cookies and shed the light of Christ's love by presenting to a friend or relative this week.

ADVENT LANTERNS
Another idea that is symbolic of the light, is to make a jar lantern, or in this case, Advent lanterns.  By simply covering a glass jar with tissue paper, adding a few festive stickers and a handle, you can then insert an LED tea light and go for a walk around your neighborhood at dusk. Be sure to pray for each family as you pass by their house. This might even be a good time to share some of the baked goods mentioned above. You'll find something similar, here.



RECIPES
During Advent I often like to make special foods to share together after our evening candle lighting and devotionals. It would also be nice to have some fun refreshments to come home to after taking an Advent Lantern walk. These recipes are ones that we have enjoyed in years past. I made the Winter Lemonade for the first time last year and we will definitely be making it again!



CHOCOLATE ORANGE COOKIES
1 cup butter, softened
1/2 cup confectioner’s sugar
1 teaspoon orange juice 1 tablespoon orange zest
2 cups all purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 cup dark chocolate, finely chopped
1/2 cup candied orange peel

Preheat oven to 325 degrees.  Prepare a baking sheet by lining it with a silicone liner or parchment paper.Set aside.


In a large bowl, use a hand-held mixer to cream together the butter and the sugar until light and fluffy.


Add the orange juice and orange zest.  Beat into the butter mixture.


Add the flour and salt.  Beat until just incorporated.


Add the chocolate and the candied orange peel.  Beat until just mixed through.


Divide the cookie dough into three equal portions.  Place two portions aside, and keep them covered they don’t dry out.


Lightly pat the cookie dough into a ball and place it between two sheets of parchment paper.  Using a rolling pin, roll the dough out to slightly less than 1/2 inch thick.


Cut rolled dough into rounds using a cookie cutter.  (I used a 1 1/2 inch round cookie cutter.)

Transfer to baking sheet, leaving 2 inches of space between each cookie.  Round up remaining dough and roll again until dough is used up.  Repeat with the other two portions of cookie dough.


Bake for 13 minutes.  Remove from oven and allow to cool on the baking sheet for 2 minutes.  Transfer to a wire cooling rack to finish cooling.


Before serving, grate some orange zest right over top and add a few curls of shaved dark chocolate.

CHOCOLATE CAYENNE COOKIES
1 and 1/4 cups all purpose flour 
1/4 cup + 2 Tablespoons Rodelle Dutch processed cocoa 
1/2 teaspoon baking soda 
1/4 teaspoon salt 
1/2 teaspoon ground cayenne pepper 
3/4 teaspoon if you're feeling really spicy! (*NOTE - They get a little spicier after you make them!)
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon 
1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg 
1/2 cup unsalted butter at room temperature 
1 cup granulated sugar 
1 large egg 
1 teaspoon vanilla extract 
4 ounces  Lindt Chili Chocolate Bar, chopped (or just any regular dark chocolate)
Cayenne Pepper - for sprinkling a bit of heat, if desired!

In a medium bowl, whisk together flour, cocoa, baking soda, salt, cayenne pepper, cinnamon, and nutmeg. Set aside. 

In a large bowl, cream the butter and sugar on medium-high speed until light and fluffy (approximately 2-3 minutes). Turn the mixer speed down to medium, add the egg and vanilla, and beat again until combined. 

With the mixer on low, slowly add flour mixture and beat until just combined. Add the chopped chocolate and continue mixing until evenly dispersed. Cover dough and refrigerate for at least 1 hour and up to 3 days. 

When you are ready to bake the cookies, line a large baking sheet with parchment paper or a silicone baking mat. Set aside. Preheat oven to 350ºF. 

Using a cookie scoop, roll the dough into balls and place on prepared baking sheet. Bake for 8-10 minutes, or until edges are set and center is no longer shiny. Remove from oven and allow to cool on baking sheet for 5 minutes before transferring to a wire rack to cool completely.  Sprinkle with a tiny bit of cayenne pepper for added heat, if desired.

WINTER LEMONADE WITH GINGER AND CLOVES
1 cup fresh lemon juice
4 1/2 cups filtered water
1/2 cup honey
2 inches fresh ginger, unpeeled and coarsely chopped
5 whole cloves
2 cardamom pods
1 cinnamon stick

In a medium saucepan combine lemon juice, half of the water, honey, ginger, and spices.

Bring to a simmer, stir until honey is dissolved, and remove from heat.

Cover and allow to steep for 15 minutes.

Strain through a fine mesh strainer into a pitcher. Add the remaining water.

Refrigerate until chilled through. Serve over ice! Enjoy!

ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
And now before I wrap this up, let me say this. There are daily readings for each day during the Advent season that spans this year from December 1 until Christmas Day. That being said, what I focus on primarily in these posts are the four Sundays leading up to Christmas Day. I will be doing daily readings during my quiet time each morning, but since there are so many different and wonderful versions and resources to choose from, I'll leave that to you. I have yet to decide on one for myself this year, so I need to make that decision soon. But, just in case you need some direction, here are a few that I have read in past years both on my own and with my girls that you might enjoy.

ALL LINKS ARE AFFILIATE

For Families
- The 25 Days of Christmas: A Family Devotional To Help You Celebrate Jesus
- The Way To The Manger: A Family Advent Devotional
- Unwrapping The Greatest Gift: A Family Celebration Of Christmas

For Personal Reflection
- Advent With St. Francis - St. Francis is one of my favorite Saints, and this books is a lovely read during this season.
- Advent and Christmas Wisdom From G. K. Chesterton
- Advent and Christmas Wisdom From Henry J. M. Nouwen
- Come Thou Long Expected Jesus: Experiencing The Peace and Promise of Christmas

And here are some other books, that while not necessarily daily readings, would be nice to read during the season.

- The Characters of Christmas: The Unlikely People Caught Up In The Story of Jesus
- Because of Bethlehem: Love is Born Hope Is Here by Max Lucado

Over the next few days I'll be posting links to additional resources than you could use in observing Advent. Until then, I hope you've enjoyed what I've compiled so far.  Advent is such a beautiful season, a means of slowing and bringing stillness to what has otherwise become the often chaotic spirit of Christmas. Observing this holy season has redeemed and restored Christmas for me, and I hope it all for you as well!

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Wayback Wednesday - The Thanksgivings of Yesteryear!


Take a trip back to the Thanksgivings of yesteryear!

Young America Films - A Day of Thanksgiving


Young America Films was an American educational company that produced instructional films from the 1940s to the 1960s, often distributing content from other producers like Centron. The films covered various topics, including civics, life skills, and history, and were shown in schools to introduce concepts to students, sometimes on 16mm film reels. Examples include their 1951 film "A Day of Thanksgiving" and other mini-movies on themes like "Then and Now" and "History of Transportation".

The History of Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade


25 Forgotten Thanksgiving Side Dishes Grandma Used To Make

Monday, November 17, 2025

Classic Thanksgiving Playlists For Your Holiday Ambiance!


Jake Westbrook's collections were the first I found on You Tube a few years back!


Endearing Entertainment  has other seasonal selections!


Subscribe to Vintage Relaxation for more seasonal music!


Vintage Vibes is another great channel for classic seasonal music!

Saturday, November 15, 2025

Small Things - Second Saturday in November
- Preparing Your Home And Heart For Advent

"Life is not, for most of us, a pageant of splendor, but is made up of many small things, rather like an old fashioned piecework quilt. No two people have the same, but we all have our own, whether it be listening to Beethoven's fifth with a beloved friend, or seeing a neighbor at the back door with a basket of white dahlias. Or after a long, hard day, having the family say, "That was a good supper."

GLADYS TABER


As I've been reflecting upon the upcoming Advent season, which begins on Sunday, November 30,  I've come across a number of lovely resources I want to share with you.

Silvia at Espi Living, has written a wonderful post for developing some simple low cost traditions for celebrating Advent at home. I especially love the idea of creating a special prayer corner for the season, the "One Thing At A Time" tradition, and creating a Waiting Journal. I had already planned to keep a journal specifically for this season this year, and referring to it in this way makes it even more special!

I was blessed by this post from Elizabeth Ross, and was happy to find the Advent Breath Prayers, which I plan to incorporate into my daily rhythm this season.

3. Advent and Homemaking
I came across this lovely series earlier this month and was so inspired. Samantha has written a post for each week of the season that implements the themes of Advent, Hope, Peace, Joy and Love as well as Christmas Eve. You can find each of them here;


I really enjoyed reading this post by Sarah, and I think it will bless you, as well. I was especially touched by the idea of the spiritual practice of noticing!

Our family has observed the lighting of the candles and scripture readings on the four Sundays of Advent for many years now, but the idea of a special dinner each Sunday takes it to the next level! Such a lovely tradition!

And finally this simple cost-free idea of being intentional in kindness in this season truly captures the spirit of this season. Just one simple act of kindness can be especially meaningful in the lives of others.



Edgewater, Maryland

If you live in the area, be sure to visit them!


 


Wednesday, November 12, 2025

The Story of Advent

THE STORY OF ADVENT

Advent is known, and yet not known. To some it is merely a name; to others, a beautiful custom, a lovely practice. Most of us have taken little, if indeed any, time to learn the history of the season or ponder its significance.


Advent does have a. history, however, an interesting one. To begin with, the Advent season as we now know it does not go back to the beginning of the Christmas era. It may come as a surprise, or even a shock, to learn that the date for the celebration of Christmas has not always been December twenty-fifth. There was a time, for instance, when Christmas was celebrated on the sixth of January. The church year took form gradually, and even today is not uniform everywhere.


Advent as we think of it today, is a season of preparation for Christmas. It includes four Sundays and a variable number of additional days, depending on the day of the week on which December twenty-fifth falls. There is no evidence of an established celebration of Christmas on December twenty fifth until the fourth century, and the season of preparation for that celebration is even more recent.


The season of Advent as such as is not mentioned until the seventh century. Its observance is said to have originated in Gaul. However, a synod at Saragossa, Spain in 380 prescribed a penitential preparation for Christmas. Canon IV (a church rule), states that from the seventeenth of December to Feast of Epiphany (January 6), everyone must attend church daily and that worshippers may not go to church with bare feet. This canon is thought to be the first rule ever passed regarding the observance of the season before Christmas.


There is some vague evidence that a small church council held at Tours about A. D. 567 prescribed a fast to be kept by monks every day in December. This is regarded by some as the first unquestionable reference to an Advent season. A few years later, in the south of Gaul, there is found what seems to be a less exacting rule that applied to everyone regarding the number of days on which the fast was to be observed. It appears evident that it involved a period of tasing, broken only on the third Sunday, which bore the designation, Gaudete, “Rejoice ye.”


The Council of Macon, A.D. 581, also had something to say about the season we know as Advent. Beginning with the Festival of St. Martin (November 11), the second, fourth and sixth days of the week were to be observed as days of fasting. The length of the season, however, seems to have varied a great deal, ranging from six weeks to three, and even two. At the close of the sixth century, Rome established the four Sundays before Christmas as Advent Sundays; in the next century this practice became prevalent, though not universal to the West.


In Roman Catholic churches today, practices vary greatly as to fasting. In Great Britain and Ireland, Wednesdays and Fridays are observed as fast days; but in many part of Europe the weeks in Advent are not set apart in any special way.


In England forty days of fasting before the celebration of the birth of the Lord were observed in the seventh and eighth centuries, as ordered for the Western church by Charlemagne’s “Homilarium.” In 1662 the English Book of Common Prayer stated that “Advent Sunday is always the Sunday nearest the feast of St. Andrew (November 30), whether before or after.”


In the Greek church the general observance of forty days of penitential preparation for Christmas does not appear to have been established before the thirteenth century. The Greek church of today begins the forty days of preparation on November eleventh. The fast is somewhat rigorous on Wednesdays and Fridays and somewhat relaxed on other days.


Different customs have obtained and still obtain during Advent. The Armenians, for instance, observe a fast during the week preceding the Nativity, and during one week beginning fifty days before the Nativity. For this reason it has been thought that these two weeks are of a survival of a fast that had originally lasted fifty days. In Normandy farmers still employ children to run with lighted torches through the fields and orchards setting fire to bundles of straw in order to drive out vermin so that the Christ child might have a clean bed. In Italy the last days of Advent are marked by the entry into Rome of the Calabrian pifferari (itinerant musicians from Calabia) who play bagpipes before the shrines of the Holy Mother, as the shepherds are believed to have done before the infant Savior.


It was natural, perhaps, inevitable, that in those branches of the early Protestant church which reacted violently against even the celebration of Christmas there should be no interest in the Advent season as such. In the liturgical branches of the Protestant church, of course, the season has always had considerable meaning. But it is to be noted that in nearly all church there is today a tendency to a growing observance of the special days and seasons of the Church year. The renewed emphasis presently being given to Advent is in part a reaction against the growing secularization of Christmas. Advent is seen to afford the Christian an opportunity to think clearly and soberly about the mystery of the Incarnation.


- Paul M. Lindberg

Advent: The Days Before Christmas (1966)

Monday, November 10, 2025

Looking Ahead to Advent,
The Beginning Of A New Liturgical Year


Beginning today I want to shift my focus to the upcoming season of Advent, which begins on Sunday, November 30. Following is a post I have shared several times before, but for those who are not familiar with Advent which is the first day of the Liturgical Year, or as I refer to it, the Year of the Lord, I find it helpful as a baseline for understanding the meaning and significance of this lovely season. 

Over the next few days and weeks I will be sharing our traditions, ideas, resources and recipes for celebrating Advent, including ideas for observing St. Nicholas Day (December 6), St. Lucy's Day (December 13) and The O Antiphons, the eight golden days of Advent which begins on December 17, as well as The Advent Ember Days which occur on December 17, 19 and 20.

But now. to begin, here is the post I have shared around this time for several years now. Perhaps in the midst of so much political unrest in our country, the observance of Advent and The Year of the Lord will be a calming balm for our souls.

Many years ago I stumbled upon a book in the public library, Holidays and Holy Nights by Christopher Hill, who first introduced me, a wholly Protestant girl, to The Liturgical Year, or as I prefer to call it, The Year of the Lord. Though I was not raised Catholic, in reading this book I found a beauty and rhythm in The Liturgical Year that was appealing, even comforting to me. Recently, as I’ve begun working my way through the spiritual practices, I was reminded again of this lovely book and the in particular, the following passage. In my efforts to slow the pace of life, these words are a balm for my hurried soul, and what started me on my journey to a slower, sacred, and more meaningful way of living. 

"The whole point of the Year of the Lord is that there is more than one way to experience time. The understanding of time that most people live with is only one way to experience it. We could call it the worldly or profane understanding of time. It is an image of time as a straight horizontal line with a middle point, where we stand, called The Present. This line is always moving past us like a conveyor belt. On the left is the Past, where present moments constantly flow and immediately cease to exist. On the right is The Future, which is always moving toward the Present, but never actually arrives. 

This model is almost completely abstract. In other words, we never actually experience any of it. The present is gone before we are aware of it, and the past and future lie outside our grasp. Anxiety is built into it. Each human possesses only a limited quantity of this kind of time, and it is constantly passing us by, never to return. 

This view of time is not necessarily bad. It can be a useful tool. All human progress, in some sense, depends on it. But its not the whole or most important part of the picture. It is not the way we experience time in the deepest parts of ourselves, on the level of our hearts, and it is not the way God experiences time. Above and below this abstract, one-dimensional timeline, is well, reality. This is the world we actually experience, in which we “live and move and have our being”, as Paul said. The word “I Am” as God introduced himself to Moses. The present moment is eternity. 

For most of human history, people experienced time very different. The pattern was not a line, but a circle or cycle. The cycles of sun, moon and stars; of the seasons of the life, death and birth of plants, animals and human beings. Everything went away, but then in some way everything always came back. We can be sure that people living with this image of time still got anxious about things, but anxiety wasn’t built into the system itself. 

The image of the cycle contains a lot of truth. It expands the one-dimensional timeline into a two-dimensional circle and so takes in a lot more of reality. it is less abstract than the line, truer to experience and incorporates the fundamental patterns of creation. Years, seasons, months, weeks, days and hours all come from this model of time. Birth, life, death and rebirth are all in it. What it doesn’t include is the possibility for growth. In this cycle, the more things change, the more they stay the same. 

The Year of the Lord, the Christian understanding of time, is a variation on the cycle. The timeline, as we’ve said, is a one-dimensional model. The circle is two dimensional. The Year of the Lord is three-dimensional. It is modeled on the spiral, a circle that grows outward and upward. It grows in a vertical direction as well as horizontally, combining the straight line of the past, present and future with the height and depth of eternity. Like a spiraling tornado, it sucks one-dimensional time up into three dimensional reality. It uses time to break us out of time. It hallows and sacralizes time and transforms it into eternity. Year, season month, week, day and hour all concentric circles that lead deeper and deeper into the center; the present moment, where we live in the presence of God. The present is the Presence. And the present time ripples outward again, connecting us with all time and all the cosmos."

Monday, October 13, 2025

From The Archives: My Mom's Recipe Box

I suppose it did me little good to schedule all those posts while we were away on vacation, just to come back home and not post anything for over a week! Sometimes I think it takes as much time to recover from vacation as it does to go on one! Anyway, I play to be posting new content again soon, but for today I thought I would share this post from the archives, originally dated 10/23/19, so it's been awhile! I hope you enjoy it, and I'll chat with you again soon!

When I was creating the graphics for another post, I came across some clip art that reminded me so much of a recipe card my mom had when I was little, that I immediately retrieved her recipe box (a treasured keepsake), to see if she had filed any of them away.  But sadly, no.  However looking through the box (which is 90% cakes, pies and cookies), stirred up a lot of emotions.

It's no surprise to me that regardless of the fact that there were dividers for a number of different food groups, that it was overflowing with recipes for sweets. My mom LOVED to bake, and it was the one thing she did right up to the end of her life that still seemed to bring her a lot of joy.  Though glaucoma had robbed of her much of her sight, she could still see well enough to bake things, though admittedly at times the measurements were, shall we say, a tad off.  In her later years she stuck to recipes that she had made so many times she knew them by heart (mostly), and on a few occasions she had me take one of the cards from this very box and write it out in VERY large print on several sheets of paper so she could read it.

I knew this box was old, but it wasn't until today that I noticed her maiden name scratched in the top, so now I'm thinking she may have been collecting recipes even before she met and married my dad, and as you can see it is well worn.

Of course in the picture at the top she is not quite old enough to be doing much in the kitchen, I think she once told me that this was her first grade school picture. But in going through some old family pictures recently, I laughed at how many there are of my mom in the kitchen, like the one below. My dad raved about my mom's cooking, and she loved cooking for him, so I'm really not surprised.  Several of the recipes in this box I know she's had since the 70's because I remember her making them.  But I think some of them may be even older than that. Looking at her familiar script is comforting, in an odd sort of way.  A little piece of her that I still have with me.


And while this isn't the same Apple Cobbler recipe that is shown on the card in the picture, I thought it might be fun to include one here as well.  To be honest, the recipe on the card didn't sound very good to me, and I never once recall my mother making it.

 Apple Cobbler

7 to 8 large (9 cups) tart cooking apples, peeled, cored, sliced 1/4-inch
3/4 cup sugar
3/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
2 cups all-purpose flour
2 cups sugar
2 large eggs
2 teaspoons baking powder
3/4 teaspoon salt
2/3 cup butter, melted
Ice cream, if desired

Heat oven to 350°F.  and place sliced apples in ungreased 13x9-inch baking dish.

Combine 3/4 cup sugar and 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon in bowl; sprinkle over apples.

Combine remaining cinnamon, flour, sugar, eggs, baking powder and salt in bowl; mix until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. Sprinkle over apples. Pour melted butter over topping. Bake 45-55 minutes or until lightly browned and apples are tender.  Serve warm with ice cream, if desired.

Do you have a collection of recipe cards written out in your grandmother or mother's familiar hand?  And isn't it lovely to have such treasures?   What is one recipe from your childhood that you remember someone in your family making and do you still make it today?  For me it my mom's chocolate pie, which I make every Thanksgiving and Christmas, so I'll be sharing that recipe here with you soon!  Until then, leave your memories (and recipes), in the comments!

Monday, September 29, 2025

From The Archives - Favorite Poems: Poems of Home


Pumpkin patch in Delaware, Autumn 2018

Since we'll should be from out Texas vacation any day now, I thought for today I'd share a post from the archives.  This one is from October 2023, I hope you'll enjoy revisiting it again today! 

I have loved poetry most of my life, and with each changing season there have been poems and poets that have resonated with me for various reasons. But poems of hearth and home are the ones I love best, and the poem I am sharing below is one of my favorites.  

I first came across it some years back in a little book I picked up at a used book store, Poems That Touch The Heart. (It's available to borrow from Internet Archives, just click the link.). She also has a collection of poems she wrote herself, The First To Kneel, though I haven't been able to find it online. But this little poem so beautifully captures my own thoughts of home, and I wanted to share it here with you today.  I hope you will enjoy it.

Let there be within these phantom walls
Beauty where the hearth fire's shadow falls . . .
Quiet pictures, books, and welcoming chairs . . .
Music that the very silence shares. . .
Kitchen windows curtained blue and white . . .
Shelves and cupboards built for my delight . . .
Little things that lure and beckon me
With their tranquil joy, and let there be
Lilt of laughter-swift forgotten tears
Woven through the fabric of the years. . .
Strength to guard me, eyes to answer mine
Mutely clear. And though without may shine
Stars of dawn or sunset's wistful glow,
All of life and love my house shall show.

~ Catherine Parmenter Newell


Saturday, September 27, 2025

Small Things - The Vacation Edition #6

"Life is not, for most of us, a pageant of splendor, but is made up of many small things, rather like an old fashioned piecework quilt. No two people have the same, but we all have our own, whether it be listening to Beethoven's fifth with a beloved friend, or seeing a neighbor at the back door with a basket of white dahlias. Or after a long, hard day, having the family say, "That was a good supper."

GLADYS TABER

In no particular order, here are three small things that inspired me recently;

1. Come On Home

Jessica Smartt's new book is out now! I've had my copy pre-ordered for several weeks now, and can not wait to dive in! My husband and I are considering foster care again. We did it for about seven years when our girls were young, and now that we are empty nesters it's something we're considering again. With that, I've been re-reading some of my favorite parenting / mothering books recently to re-ground myself in some essential basic truths. I was so blessed by her previous book, Let Them Be Kids, and I'm sure I'll be equally blessed by her latest offering!

I've been blessed by Beth's offerings for several years now. Following the model and philosophy of Charlotte Mason, Beth creates resources for homeschooling children and their mother's to guide and encourage them on their journey. If you're familiar with Charlotte Mason, then you probably know about her List of Attainments for Children of Six and Twelve. But Beth has produced a list for homeschooling mom's as well. While we won't be homeschooling foster children, I do hope to incorporate things like nature study, seasonal handcrafts etc. into the time they are with us. With that, I've been brushing up on my Charlotte Mason and found these resources inspiring! If you're interested in learning more about Charlotte Mason and/or Mother Culture, consider becoming a member of The Mother's Circle!

3. Halfway to Cozy - Welcoming Autumn!
This is one of my favorite YouTube accounts! Pour yourself a cup of tea, sit back, relax and enjoy!



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Wednesday, September 24, 2025

Small Things - The Vacation Edition #5


"Life is not, for most of us, a pageant of splendor, but is made up of many small things, rather like an old fashioned piecework quilt. No two people have the same, but we all have our own, whether it be listening to Beethoven's fifth with a beloved friend, or seeing a neighbor at the back door with a basket of white dahlias. Or after a long, hard day, having the family say, "That was a good supper."

GLADYS TABER

In no particular order, here are three small things that inspired me recently;

1. Sunshine Valley
I just recently discovered Amanda's blog, and I love just about everything about it! Here are a few of my favorite posts so far;



I am uplifted and encouraged every time I visit Rachels Instagram account. This post in particular;
"Take your fears about what the world is becoming, and convert them into a passion to make your own little world - your home - into a refuge for your beloved children. Create a haven that is overflowing with the Word of God, riddled with truth love and joy in Jesus."

3. It's that time of year again, for my favorite childhood book, Miss Suzy!

Monday, September 22, 2025

Small Things - The Vacation Edition #4

"Life is not, for most of us, a pageant of splendor, but is made up of many small things, rather like an old fashioned piecework quilt. No two people have the same, but we all have our own, whether it be listening to Beethoven's fifth with a beloved friend, or seeing a neighbor at the back door with a basket of white dahlias. Or after a long, hard day, having the family say, "That was a good supper."

GLADYS TABER

In no particular order, here are three small things that inspired me recently;

I just love these little crocheted saltbox houses. Definitely saving whipping some of these up soon!

Thinking about giving this recipe a try once we return from vacation.

3. Autumn 1940's Jazz Ambiance

Saturday, September 20, 2025

Small Things - The Vacation Edition #3

"Life is not, for most of us, a pageant of splendor, but is made up of many small things, rather like an old fashioned piecework quilt. No two people have the same, but we all have our own, whether it be listening to Beethoven's fifth with a beloved friend, or seeing a neighbor at the back door with a basket of white dahlias. Or after a long, hard day, having the family say, "That was a good supper."

GLADYS TABER


In no particular order, here are six things that inspired me recently;

Two of my absolute favorite autumn flavors combined! I'm adding this to my autumn backing list, and I'll let you know how I liked it.

I recently discovered Kate's Instagram account and I've been blessed by it! Her posts and quotes are so lovely and inspirational, definitely a place to visit!

My dear friend and fellow Texan, Brandi McIntosh recently put me on to these lovely videos and I just can not get enough of them! I've been putting them on every night before I go to bed and I fall right to sleep. But they're honestly even better during the day, just softly playing on your tv screen while you work! I am not able to do that much, so I just listen to and enjoy them on my phone or iPad. Oh the joys of rural internet! This one, Books and Tea Evening In The Rabbit Hole, is quite possibly my favorite!