Wednesday, August 12, 2026

Wayback Wednesday: A Tribute To Mr. Owl



Today I want to pay tribute to one of my favorite classic television commercial icons from my childhood, Mr. Owl!

The classic "How Many Licks?" Tootsie Pop commercial was created by the ad agency Doner, debuting in 1970 after a 1969 soft launch.

The original extended spot had a questioning boy ask a cow, a fox, and a turtle before reaching Mr. Owl. 

But eventually, the creators realized that the segment with Mr. Owl worked best on its own, leading to the tighter iconic 30-second cut most viewers know today.

Mr. Owl was voiced by legendary voice actor Paul Winchell, famous for voicing Tigger in Winnie the Pooh and Gargamel in The Smurfs. The questioning boy was voiced/played by Buddy Foster.

The narrator's closing line—"The world may never know"—became a permanent part of American pop culture. 

Over the decades, many real-life groups and student studies actually tested the math, finding it takes anywhere from 400 to over 1,000 licks to reach the chocolate center, proving Mr. Owl's "three licks" answer was purely playful.

Mr. Owl is such an iconic and honestly, endearing memory from my childhood that I actually recently purchased a t-shirt depicting his image. Interestingly enough, I was never a big fan of tootsie pops, although I do credit them with introducing me to the wonderful combination of orange and chocolate! To be honest, I'm not even sure what flavors they make anymore, is the orange flavor even still a thing?  Overall I was more of a tootsie roll girl. 

So what about you, do you have a favorite memory of a commercial from your childhood?  What was your favorite Tootsie Pop flavor?  Join the conversation in the comments! :)

Friday, August 7, 2026

From The Archives: Blessing The Weekend


This is an oldie but a goodie and a practice I want to become more intentional in keeping! Unfortunately that won't be today, in fact nothing about this week has gone according to plan, but that's ok, kind of :). At any rate, I wanted to share this with you again because when I am intentional  about keeping this small practice, it makes our weekend so much more relaxed!  And yes, this is achievable even as a mom with small children, that is actually the time period that I was the most diligent about observing it. The best part is, if you're children are old enough, you can enlist their help and get everyone excited about making a way to spend quality time together! I hope you'll enjoy!

Some years ago I took a course, Hibernate, with the lovely Heather Bruggeman of North Ridge Farm. If you're not familiar with Heather's blog then I invite you to skip this post for now, pour yourself a cup of something warm and settle in for awhile and peruse her offerings. I've learned so much from Heather over the years, and I hope to be just like her when I grow up!  Over the course of several years I took a number of Heather's classes, and I am now of a member of her online community Hearth and Home! I always learn so much in the time spent gleaning from her wisdom and expertise. I can't praise her classes enough! They are all just so good and I highly recommend joining this lovely community as membership is currently open!

In the last session of Hibernate, Heather spoke about Blessing The Weekend, a ritual that came about during the years when she was homeschooling her daughter.. Like many homeschooling families, Friday's were a half day, and once they finished with their lessons, they would spend a few hours tidying the home, maybe making up a quick pan of brownies, or a pot of soup and a few other quick, easy meals. The objective here being to cut down on time spent in the kitchen. She emphasized that she likes to cook, but she also like not having too, as well, and that by  the taking the time to do a little prepping on Friday afternoons, you can easily have one or two meals and snacks ready to carry you through until Monday. Fast food, but at significantly less cost and better for you!

Another thing she did are what I like to refer to as "cozy chores". Changing the sheets on the bed, dusting off furniture, making up a lovely bouquet of flowers for the table. Anything that freshens the space and make things warm and inviting, "cozying up", as I like to say. None of this takes very long at all, especially if you enlist help. But even it its just you, typically within an hour or two you've set the stage o spend intentional time with your family and just be together.

Reading Heather's words reminded me of the Jewish practice of Shabbat, or what I refer to as sabbath. In Jewish homes Shabbat (pronounced SHAH-BAHT or some communities, SHAH-BIS, is a weekly twenty five hour observance that begins just before sundown each Friday and through the completion of nightfall on Saturday. It is a day of physical and spiritual delights highlighting key concept of the Jewish faith. Preparations begin as early as mid-week. As no work is to be done during this time, meals must be prepared ahead of time (similar to what Heather shared), and the observance begins with the a candle lighting ceremony which I think is just lovely and have long intended to incorporate into my own sabbath observance. Jewish tradition mandates three specific shabbat meals, and in addition to special foods, the family spends time singing, studying and celebrating together.

Now I know at this point some of you may be thinking, "Well, this all sounds lovely, but our kids are involved in soccer on the weekend, there's yard work to do, and preparations to be made for church on Sunday.", and let me assure you, I hear you loud and clear! In her book Rhythms of Rest, Shelly Miller shared this thought; "The sabbath isn't about resting perfectly, it's about resting in the one who is perfect." The important thing is not how much time you are able to devote to rest and being together, but that you are intentional about setting aside some time every weekend, to make space to be together. If you still don't see how that might be possible, let me offer a few suggestions.

❊ Begin planning  mid-week for the upcoming weekend. Think through what activities you already have scheduled and then determine how much time you have to devote to rest and relaxation. Mark that time slot off in your calendar so that as you receive invitations you'll already have it reserved. And don't be discouraged if at first you find you can only squeeze in a couple of hours. It also might even take a little encouragement to get other members of the family on board with the idea, but once you begin my guess is you'll enjoy it so much, everyone will want more and before you know you'll be willing to sacrifice more to have this time together.

❊ When doing your weekly meal planning, take this time into consideration. If you don't want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen, then take a cue from Heather an make up a bit pot of soup or stew that can be enjoyed all weekend. If your budget affords, plan a special meal out, or if the weather is nice, go on a picnic. Maybe you want to bake something together, so take time to do a quick inventory and make sure you have all of the ingredients. Nothing spoils time together like someone having to rush off to the store for eggs or sugar.

❊ Think of other things that will encourage spending time together. Go through the board games in your closet and set out a few favorites. Maybe a deck of cards? Plan a trip to the library together to pick up a few books or maybe a dvd the whole family can watch. But aside from television and maybe a movie, I would recommend you try to limit screen time.This is a time for intentionally being together. You could go on a hike, visit a museum, work on a puzzle. The possibilities are endless, so be creative.

❊ And finally, set the stage. It's hard to be together and not be distracted if the family room is overrun with toys, there's a stack of dirty dishes in the kitchen, the floors need sweeping, you get the picture. It doesn't have to be perfect, but if you take the time to tidy things up it makes for a much more inviting and relaxing atmosphere. I like to change the sheets on our bed on Fridays so that after a day of fun everyone has a clean, comfy bed to crawl in to. Another element that is a must in our home is candlelight. And though I don't follow the the ceremony associated with Shabbat.(though I'd like to), it's such an important piece that it's really become the cue. Any time my family comes in to finds candles lit, twinkle lights glowing, and soft music playing (usually some light jazz), I can almost watch the stress from the day wash from their faces, and they are instantly engaged and ready. Setting aside time for rest and for intentionally being together is just the anecdote you and your family need for recovering from the madness and business of the world.

To help you brainstorm through your own sabbath weekend, or weekend hours, with your family, I've created a little printable, of course, **wink**. And again, don't be discouraged if at first you can't find much time to carve out, or if it takes you a few tries before you find your rhythm and figure to what works best. I've allowed space for you to muddle through those thoughts until it becomes a natural and regular part of your routine.  Just click on the link below to download your free copy!


A Family Sabbath Worksheet

In closing I want to leave you with this lovely passage from one of my favorite children's books, All of a Kind Family.

"At home, the kitchen was warm with the smell of fresh baked white bread. The room sparkled with cleanliness. The table, which wore only an oilcloth covering all through the week, now had a snowy white tablecloth. On it stood the brass candlesticks, gleaming brightly from the polishing that Ella and Sarah had given them the ay before. They were just in time to see Mama saying the prayer over the candles.

The children stood around the table watching her. A lovely feeling of peace and contentment seemed to flow out from Mama to them. First she put a napkin on her head, then placing four white candles in the brass candlesticks, she lit them. She extended her arms to form a circle. One the lighted candles the encircling gesture was repeated. After that Mama covered her eyes with her hands softly murmuring a prayer in Hebrew.

This was Sabbath ushered in."

- Sydney Taylor

To learn more about Shabbat prayers, visit this page.



Monday, August 3, 2026

Homemaking Monday - My Annual Pre-Holiday Seasonal Deep Clean


Well, my friends, it's hard to believe but it is that time of year again, and by "that time", I'm referring to the shift in focus that seems to come naturally for me every year around August 1.  The garden holds my attention from March through July, but come August, I still start feeling the pull to begin preparations for the 'Ber Months, as I affectionately call them, and all the joy, hustle and bustle they can bring!

I've been quietly setting aside a few gifts as I find them here and there, well, since right after Christmas last year! But aside from that, all my foward thinking and prep doesn't really begin to take hold until what are often the hottest days of summer, although this year has been blessedly mild! Still, in most cases it is precisely the temperature outdoors that sets me to focusing once again on the indoors, and with the garden holding so much of my attention for several months, it is usually desperately in need of cleaning. 


Last year I got a late start on my autumn decorating, and it felt as though I had just put it all out and it was time to take it down and decorate for Christmas.  For the first time in over a decade I didn't decorate for Christmas until after Thanksgiving, which I know is typical for many, but it simply does not work for me!  2025 was a different year, our daughter was in a near fatal car accident in April, and by the grace of God walked down the aisle and was married in August, so there were a number of reasons I got behind.  But it made for a very stressful holiday season and I vowed that this year I was returning to my roots and getting back on schedule.

All this to say, over the coming month I'll be knees and elbows deep into my annual pre-holiday deep cleaning, and it begins this week.  It's going to be a bit of slow start, as we have a number of appointments already on the schedule this week, but hopefully I'll be able to knock a few things off the the list, and speaking of, here it is, if you're interested in this sort of thing, and if not, well, this may be at the forefront of my posts for several weeks, so maybe come back and visit me in September! :)

Rather than assign tasks to certain days, I decided to break it up into two phases with target goals for each phase to be completed.  Knowing that we have a number of appointments and commitments this month already, this works better for me.  There's nothing I hate more than having a to-do list for say, Monday, and then not checking off all the boxes, I'm a bit obsessive about those little boxes! This way I have a list of tasks that I want to finish in each phase, and the goal is to have all the boxes checked off by the deadline.

Phase I - Goal to be completed by August 13
Kitchen
- Project 1 - Cooking Area
- Project 2 - Food Storage
- Project 3 - Pantry and Cabinets
- Project 4 - Sink and Counters
- Project 5 - Finishing Touches

Dining Room

Family Room


Phase 1 complete! Decorate for Autumn on August 14-15



Phase II - Goal to be completed by September 4
Bathroom

Master Bedroom

Guest Bedroom

Office Craft Room

Front Porch

Even using this method this feels ambitious, especially when you consider that I can't completely abandon the garden and outdoors.  My commitment is 2x a week outdoors, and 3x indoors during August, not including days when we have appointments, which will interrupt one of those days and I'll have to prioritize which is more important to make up. But, even if I don't finish everything by September 4, I'm ok with that because the biggest project, the kitchen, will be done! I have the tasks for each room broken down, but I won't share those here, at least, not in this post.  But, I will be sharing my progress here with you over the next month, if you'd like to follow along. Maybe you've been inspired to get your house in order and start prepping early for the holidays, too, and you're certainly welcome to join! Nothing official, just comment and share your progress throughout the month, it would be fun to cheer each other on!

And with that, it's time I get to it, friends! I hope your Monday is blessed! I'll see you back here soon!

Wednesday, July 8, 2026

From The Archives: My Favorite Summer Movies


Last summer my husband and I worked our way through my boxed set of beach movies. Every Monday night is "Old Movie Monday" at our house, and even though we had watched a few of these before, we decided this summer to watch them all, and in the order they were released. So far we've watched

- Beach Party (1963)
- Muscle Beach Party (1964)
- Bikini Beach (1964)
and 
- Ski Party (1965) which is technically not a beach movie, but it is included in the box set, and is actually one of my favorites.


These movies are campy, but I love them! I actually have very fond memories of watching them with my mom. Her favorite was How To Stuff A Wild Bikini and Pajama Party, which, sadly, is not included in the box set.

If you've never seen them, or you just want to take a little trip down memory lane, you can watch them online, most of them for free!

- Pajama Party (only available on Prime)
Beach Blanket Bingo - one of my personal favorites!
- Ski Party - another favorite!
- How To Stuff A Wild Bikini - and yet another favorite!

There are also two movies in the boxed set that I couldn't find free online, Thunder Alley and Fireball 500, both of which are about racing, which makes them less desireable to watch, at least for me.

Another movie with a beach theme that I love is Summer of 42, which is the story of a young boy who develops an innocent love for a young woman whose husband is in the military. It stars a young Jennifer O'Neill, who has always been one of my favorites. I especially remember the Theme From Summer of '42, which was sung by my mother's favorite crooner, Andy Williams, and I absoutely love this instrumental version

There are a number of movies with a summer theme or setting, such as;

- American Graffitti (Netflix)
- The Parent Trap (1961) - (Disney)
- Rear Window  - my all time favorite Alfred Hitchcock! (Netflix)
- To Catch a Thief - summer on the French Riviera! (Pluto)
- A Summer Place - Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 (Daily Motion)

And then there's always my favorite summer movie, Gidget, which I wrote about, here.

Hopefully I've listed at a least a few that may be new to you that you can enjoy as hot days of summer amp up. What about you? Do you have any favorite movies you watch in this season? I'm always looking for new recommendations!




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Monday, July 6, 2026

Homemaking Monday: The History of the Homemaker's Apron

Most people don't think much about an apron anymore.


If they do, it's usually as a charming decoration hanging in a country kitchen or a vintage piece found at an antique shop. Somewhere along the way, the humble apron became little more than a symbol of nostalgia.

For centuries, though, it was one of the hardest-working items a homemaker owned.

Long before washing machines, stain removers, and inexpensive clothing, women tied on an apron each morning because it was as essential as a good broom or a well-seasoned cast iron skillet. It protected precious clothing, carried the tools of daily work, and quietly became part of the rhythm of home.

The history of the apron is really the history of homemaking itself. As homes changed, aprons changed with them. Yet despite all the conveniences of modern life, I believe they still have something to teach us about faithful stewardship, hospitality, and finding joy in ordinary work.

For centuries, it was one of the most practical and indispensable tools a homemaker owned. Long before modern washing machines, inexpensive clothing, and stain removers, an apron protected dresses that had taken weeks to sew and were expected to last for years. It shielded fabric from flour dust, soot, grease, and garden soil, allowing a woman to work hard without ruining the clothing beneath it.

The history of the apron reaches back much farther than many people realize. Ancient Egyptians wore simple linen coverings while working, and throughout the Middle Ages, tradesmen and craftsmen of every kind wore aprons suited to their work. Blacksmiths favored heavy leather, while bakers, butchers, and merchants often wore linen or canvas.

As the centuries passed, the homemaker's apron developed into something uniquely its own.

By the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, many women owned several aprons, each with a specific purpose. There were sturdy work aprons for laundry day, gardening, preserving food, and tending livestock. Cleaner aprons were worn while preparing meals or welcoming visitors, and some women even reserved beautifully embroidered aprons for Sundays or special occasions.

An apron was much more than protection for a dress.

Its pockets carried clothespins, scissors, seed packets, handkerchiefs, and recipe notes. The wide skirt became a basket for gathering eggs, apples, beans, or freshly picked herbs. It served as a potholder, a towel for drying wet hands, and even a place for a tired child to hide his face after a difficult day.

In many ways, the apron became a symbol of hospitality.

When family arrived at the back door and found Mother wearing her apron, they knew supper was on the stove. The smell of fresh bread, simmering soup, or warm cinnamon often became forever connected with the sight of those apron strings tied neatly at her waist.

As household technology improved during the twentieth century, the apron slowly disappeared from everyday life. Ready-made clothing became affordable, automatic washing machines made laundry easier, and many women simply found they no longer needed one as often.

At the same time, the apron began to be viewed by some as a symbol of an outdated way of life.

I think that's unfortunate.

An apron never represented weakness. It represented work.

It spoke of meals prepared from scratch, gardens carefully tended, children comforted, and homes cared for with diligence. It reminded us that the countless small tasks of homemaking matter because the people we serve matter.

That is why I still enjoy tying on an apron before I bake bread, preserve vegetables from the garden, or spend an afternoon in the kitchen. It doesn't make me a better homemaker, but it does remind me to approach my work with intention. It marks the beginning of caring for my home in much the same way generations of women have done before me.

Perhaps that's why the apron has endured for so long.

It isn't simply a piece of fabric with pockets.

It is a quiet reminder that the ordinary work of home has always been extraordinary in its importance. While fashions change and household routines evolve, the calling to create a place of warmth, nourishment, and welcome remains much the same.

And maybe that's why the humble apron still has a place in our homes today.

 

Monday, June 15, 2026

Homemaking Monday - A Familiar Favorite: Home Sweet Home

Today we'll pause to reflect on a familiar favorite, perhaps you know it, or at least the opening line?  But in case you've never read the complete work, I though it might be fun to share it with you today.

John Howard Payne wrote the lyrics to "Home, Sweet Home!" in 1822 while living in London. It was first published and publicly debuted as a song in May 1823 as part of the operetta Clari, or the Maid of Milan at the Covent Garden Theatre.  You can listen to a performance of it, here.

The song's American premiere took place at the Winter Tivoli Theatre in Philadelphia on October 29, 1823, and was sung by "Mrs. Williams." In 1852, Henry Bishop "relaunched" the song as a parlour ballad, and it became very popular in the United States throughout the American Civil War and after. The song was reputedly banned from being played in Union Army camps during the American Civil War for being too redolent of hearth and home and so likely to incite desertion.

Here is the poem, I hope you'll enjoy it!

HOME SWEET HOME

’Mid pleasures and palaces though we may roam,

Be it ever so humble, there’s no place like home;

A charm from the skies seems to hallow us there

Which, seek through the world, is ne’er met with elsewhere.

Home! Home! sweet, sweet Home!

There’s no place like Home! there’s no place like Home!

An exile from home, splendour dazzles in vain;

O, give me my lowly thatched cottage again!

The birds singing gayly that came at my call—

Give me them, and the peace of mind dearer than all!

Home! Home! sweet, sweet Home!

There’s no place like Home! there’s no place like Home!

How sweet ’tis to sit ’neath a fond father’s smile,

And the cares of a mother to soothe and beguile!

Let others delight ’mid new pleasures to roam,

But give me, oh, give me the pleasures of Home!

Home! Home! sweet, sweet Home!

There’s no place like Home! there’s no place like Home!

To thee I’ll return, overburdened with care;

The heart’s dearest solace will smile on me there;

No more from that cottage again will I roam;

Be it ever so humble, there’s no place like Home.

Home! Home! sweet, sweet Home!

There’s no place like Home! there’s no place like Home!

Even the humblest home carries God’s presence. Your daily tasks—sweeping, cooking, arranging flowers—are small acts of worship. The love you pour into your home sanctifies it.

"By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches." 

– PROVERBS 24:3–4


Lord, help me to see my home as a place of sacred rest, where Your love dwells in every corner and every act of care I give.



Wednesday, June 10, 2026

My Favorite Summer Movies - Summer Magic

As many of you know, I am a HUGE Old Movies fan. I would even dare to say that 90% of what I watch on a weekly basis was released in the late 40's, 50's, 60's and some 70's. Occassionally you might even find a few titles from the 80's thrown in there, but it is s-e-l-d-o-m that I watch anything made after that, with the exception of period pieces from PBS.

It is pretty common to have a longer list of movies that you enjoy watching during the Christmas holidays, but being a seasonal soul, I have movies that I watch in almost every season, and summer is no exception.  And, since one of the squares in the Summer Bingo Challenge is to watch a movie with a summer theme, I thought it might be fun to share some of my favorite summer movies with you over the next few weeks, and we'll begin today with . . .

SUMMER MAGIC
with Hayley Mills 

Oddly enough, though it's my first choice for this series, Summer Magic is, traditionally, a movie that I watch closer to the autumn equinox. A bit of a nod, if you will, to the slowly dying days of summer. .

Based upon the book, Mother Carey's ChickensSummer Magic and depicts the life of the Carey family. When Margaret (Dorothy MacGuire), a Bostonian widow and her three children fall on hard financial times, Nancy Carey (Hayley Mills), works with Postmaster Ostia "Osh" Popham (Burl Ives) to move into a run-down old house in Maine. But isn't long before they learn that the house is actually owned by the mysterious Tom Hamilton (Peter Brown), who Osh assures them, never comes around. But when snooty cousin Julia (Deborah Walley) moves in, and  Mr. Hamilton makes a surprise visit, the fun and adventures begin!

I have loved this movie since the first time I saw it in elementary school. Every year on the last day before Christmas break, the entire school would assemble in the auditorium and we would watch a movie. There was always popcorn and soda and the teachers would usually have candy waiting for us on our desk, as well. It was always a highlight of the holiday season, knowing that Christmas was coming and you didn't have to go to school for two whole weeks! One year, I think when I was in about 3rd-4th grade, this was the movie that was featured.

I have long loved Hayley Mills, but I'm fond of Deborah Walley, too, especially in this role. She became a bit of a beach movie queen during the 60's, and I'll actually be sharing a post soon that will feature some of those movies. But her depection of Julia, the uppity cousin who turns out not to be all that she appears, is charming.

I also like the music featured in this movie. It's dubbed a musical, and I guess if I really think about it, it definitely is, but somehow the music seems to flow a bit more seamless than you typically find, at least for me. Some are also not a fan of Burl Ives when it comes to singing, and granted, he would have never made it in today's world. But I personally find him charming. A few of my favorite songs from the movie are;

- On The Front Porch - My absolute favorite!
- The Ugly Bug Ball - My girls loved this one when they were little!
- Femininity - A cute little old fashioned song. Definitely don't condone "hide the real you"

If you've never watched Summer Magic, I highly recommend it. It's a movie the whole family will enjoy and suitable for all ages. Perfect on a cool summer night with the windows open. You could make up a couple of big bowls of popcorn and some fresh lemonade and enjoy spending some time together!  Here the trailer to give you a little more of a feel for it!


As I said, if you've never watched it, I think you'll enjoy it, and please let me know if you do, even if its one you're already familiar with and have watched a dozen times or me, like me! And if you have your own list of favorite summer movies, please leave your suggestions in the comments. It just might be possible I may have missed a few!  I'll be sharing more movies on my list in the weeks to come, so if you enjoyed this post, but sure to come back for more!


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Sunday, June 7, 2026

Homemaking Monday - A Poem For Your Summer Commonplace
- Barefoot Days

I've decided that in these sweet summer months, to keep my Homemaking Monday posts here simple, a verse, a poem or a special quote that reflects on the season, the home and homemaking.  We'll dive deeper in early September, but in these long lingering days there is much to savor. Let's give that space, and begin the week with this lovely little poem by Rachel Field, perfect for our summer commonplace!

BAREFOOT DAYS

In the morning, very early,
That's the time I love to go
Barefoot where the fern grows curly
And grass is cool between each toe,
On a summer morning-O!
On a summer morning!

That is when the birds go by
Up the sunny slopes of air,
And each rose has a butterfly
Or a golden bee to wear;
And I am glad in every toe,
Such a summer morning-O!
Such a summer morning!

- RACHEL FIELD

Friday, June 5, 2026

Recipes From Grandma's Kitchen
A Summer Stand-By - Texas Pulled Pork!


If you're looking for a stand-by recipe for all your summer gatherings, this pulled pork fits the bill! Slathered in a spicy chipotle-coffee rub and slow cooked to perfection, when topped with copycat Mission BBQ Texas Twang Barbecue Sauce, it will quickly become a family favorite! Combined with my recipe for potato salad and baked beans (coming soon!), you can't miss with this tastebud-tantalizing trio!

TEXAS PULLED PORK
1 4 lb. pork butt
1/2 cup brown sugar
1/4 cup black pepper
1/4 cup finely ground dark coffee
1/4 cup smoked paprika 
2 tablespoons kosher salt
1 tablespoon chipotle powder
2 teaspoons garlic powder
2 teaspoons cinnamon
2 teaspoons cumin
2 teaspoons allspice

To make the rub, combine the brown sugar, black pepper, coffee, salt and spices. Coat the pork on all sides. Wrap in plastic wrap and place on large plate or cookie sheet. Refrigerate for 8 hours or overnight.

Remove pork from refrigerator and bring to room temperature, about 1/2 and hour. Pre-heat oven to 250.

Place pork in lightly oiled (about 1 teaspoon canola oil) roasting pan or dutch oven and cook uncovered fat side up for 8 hours or about 2 hours per pound.

After the pork has cooked, remove the meat from the oven and let sit for 30 mins to 1 hours. The pork will appear to be black, which is the natural color the rub takes on when cooked. It is not burned! Using two forks, pull the meat into strands being sure to incorporate the black rub in with the meat. and coat with about a cup of barbecue sauce, or as desired. Serve additional sauce on the side. 

Serve on a bun with cole slaw or pickled jalapenos.

Serves 
4 adults with plenty of leftovers
6 adults with comfortable servings
8 adults with moderate servings + sides

COPYCAT MISSION BBQ TEXAS TWANG BARBECUE SAUCE
1 cup ketchup
1/2 cup apple cider vinegar
1/4 cup yellow mustard
1/4 cup brown sugar
2 tablespoons molasses
1 tablespoon worcestershire sauce
1 teaspoon liquid smoke
1 teaspoon smoked paprika
1/2 teaspoon garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon onion powder
1/2 teaspoon black pepper 
1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper (adjust for heat)
1/2 teaspoon salt
Pinch of crushed red pepper for extra bite (optional)

Add everything to a saucepan over medium heat.

Whisk until smooth and fully combined.

Bring to a gentle simmer then reduce heat to low.

Cook uncovered 15-20 minutes, stirring occasionally. It should thicken slightly but still stay pourable. This sauce isn't thick.

Taste and adjust.
More vinegar - sharper twang.
More brown sugar - softer, sweeter edge
More cayenne pepper - sharper bite.

~ Enjoy!





Wednesday, June 3, 2026

Join Me This Summer For The Summer Bingo Challenge!

 
Well my friends, it's June and summer will officially arrive on Sunday, June 21! To be honest, it's a little hard for me to wrap my mind around that we are nearing the half way mark of the year! And while the "official" first day of summer is still a few weeks away, in our home the summer season is marked by two holidays, Memorial Day in late May and Labor Day in early September.  We've observed it this way for more than a decade now and I still prefer it.

All that to say, a few years ago as these days were approaching,  I realized that if we are not intentional, summer was going to slip by us before we even knew it and we might miss out on some fun seasonal activities and traditions. And though there is always work to do, for me, it's important to keep a balance between work and play. I get burned out quickly if I don't set aside time to engage in more leisurely activities. And so I decided to create a fun Summer Bingo Challenge. In each square I listed an activity that I would like to be intentional about doing over the summer season, with the goal being if not to achieve a blackout, to at least score a couple of bingos. Then, come September, I can look back at all the happy memories we made together!

As before, I thought it might be fun to share it hear with you! I created a personal copy for me, and then another with a few blank spaces for you to be able to write in your own ideas. You can find the link below. If you need some inspiration, just click on the image of my personal copy at the top of this post and you'll be able to see what I included in mine. If you find that some of the activities that I've included add too much going and doing to your already busy schedule, you can choose others that you can do at home. In the end the goal isn't even about getting a bingo, but about being intentional with how we spend our time in this season, and I know for me, having it written down where I can see it is half the plan to getting there!

I hope you have a wonderful Wednesday, my friends! 

Ordinary Days Of Small Things 2026 Summer Bingo Challenge

You also might enjoy my Summer Tic Tac Toe
a little simpler take on the season with fewer ideas!

Monday, June 1, 2026

Homemaking Monday - A Soft Start For Summer

❊ I HAVE FOUND SUCH JOY

I have found such joy in simple things;
   A plain clean room, a nut-brown loaf of bread,
A cup of milk, a kettle as it sings,
   The shelter of a roof above my head,
And in a leaf-laced square along the floor,
   Where yellow sunlight glimmers through a door.

I have found such joy in things that fill
   My quiet days; a curtain's blowing grace,
A potted plant upon my window sill,
   A rose, fresh-cut and placed within a vase,
A table cleared, a lamp beside a chair,
   And books I long have loved beside me there.

Oh, I have found such joys I wish I might
   Tell every woman who goes seeking far
For some elusive, feverish delight,
   That very close to home the great joys are:
The elemental things — old as the race,
   Yet never, through the ages, commonplace.

- GRACE NOLL CROWELL


Saturday, May 30, 2026

Now Available - The Ordinary Days of Small Things Summer Day Keeper


Many years ago, I began creating seasonal planners as a way to be more intentional about making lasting memories with my family. Over time, these planners evolved into what I now call Day Keepers. Each Day Keeper follows the natural rhythm of the four seasons — beginning in Spring with (March, April, May) continuing through Summer (June, July, August), Autumn (September, October, November), and Winter (December, January, February).

Rather than following the calendar year, I chose to begin each Day Keeper in the Spring, a season of fresh starts, new beginnings, and the planting of seeds — both literal and metaphorical. The year then flows naturally through each season, ending in Winter — a time for rest, reflection, and restorative peace. This cycle mirrors the rhythm of life itself, giving space for growth, change, and renewal.

Over time, I began offering the Day Keepers here on my blog, and they quickly became a popular resource for those looking to live more intentionally and savor life’s everyday moments. It has been a few years since I last shared them, but this year felt right to give them a fresh update and bring them back for you.

I have always made these planners available free of charge, and I will continue to do so this year. However, as much of the content is now being reframed and expanded for my upcoming book, What We Keep: Making Time For What Truly Matters, this will be the last year the Day Keepers are available free of charge. In the future, they will likely be offered as a companion piece to the book. So for now, this is your last opportunity to download them without cost.

If you’ve been longing for a way to live more intentionally, make lasting memories, and follow the natural rhythm of the seasons, I invite you to download your Day Keeper today and begin your year with intention.

Download the The Summer Day Keeper Here

Download the Summer Quarter 2026 Calendars Here

Download the Summer Phenology Wheels Here

Print one phenology wheel for each month and record daily moon phase, weather, sunrise and sunset, high and low temperature, sketch flora and fauna and anything native to your location. The possibilities are endless!

May this planner guide you in noticing what matters, celebrating the small moments, and carrying intention into every day of your year.


Monday, May 25, 2026

Homemaking Mondays In May: The Theology of Homemaking
A Four Part Formation Series — Week Four: Who You Are Becoming Matters More Than What You Do

I think I used to approach homemaking mostly as something I needed to do well.

Keep things in order.

Stay on top of everything.

Create a home that felt peaceful and looked cared for.

And while those things matter, they are not the deepest thing happening here.

Because beneath the routines and responsibilities, something quieter is taking place.

You are becoming someone.

Not all at once.
Not dramatically.
Not in ways the world would necessarily notice.

But slowly, through ordinary faithfulness.

Through the constant opportunities to lay down your own pace, your own preferences, your own expectations for how the day “should” go.

Through the interruptions.
Through the repetition.
Through the small daily choices to respond gently when frustration would feel easier.

And I think this is one of the hidden mercies of homemaking: it reveals us, but it also reshapes us.

It exposes impatience.
It softens sharp edges.
It teaches endurance in places we didn’t know we needed it.

“Suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope.”

- ROMANS 5:3–4

There are forms of spiritual formation that can only happen through staying.

Through tending the same spaces.
Through loving the same people over long stretches of ordinary time.
Through embracing a life where much of the work is repeated tomorrow.

And while that kind of life may seem small from the outside, God never treats formation as small.

Because He is not only concerned with what you accomplish.

He is deeply concerned with who you are becoming.

- Patient
- Steady
- Tender-hearted
- Faithful in unseen places
- Strong in quiet ways that no longer need applause to feel valuable.

Your home is not just something you are building, it is a place God is using to build you.

And maybe that changes the questions we carry.

Not:

“Did I get enough done today?”

But:

“Did I become a little more loving?

A little more grounded?

A little more like Christ in the middle of ordinary life?”

Because long after the laundry is forgotten, the meals are eaten, and the rooms are rearranged again, the character formed within you remains.

The work matters.

But who you are becoming matters even more.

If this idea of homemaking as spiritual formation resonates with you, these books pair beautifully with this week’s reflection:

The Life You've Always Wanted — A gentle, deeply practical invitation into spiritual formation through everyday life and ordinary habits.

The Practice of the Presence of God — A quiet classic about finding communion with God in simple daily tasks and hidden work.

Adorned — A thoughtful reflection on biblical womanhood, discipleship, and the beauty of a faithful life lived within the home.

Liturgy of the Ordinary — A beautiful exploration of how God meets us through everyday routines and repetitive moments.

They each remind us in different ways that spiritual growth rarely happens through grand moments alone.

More often, it happens quietly, right in the middle of daily life.

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Monday, May 18, 2026

Homemaking Monday's In May: The Theology Of Homemaking
A Four Part Formation Series - Part Three: The Hidden Cost Of A Quiet Life


 Homemaking carries a quiet cost.

Not in a heavy or regretful way, but in a real, honest one.

Because choosing a life centered around the home often means choosing things that don’t always feel easy to name.

Choosing to not always be seen, to not always be affirmed, to not always have something measurable to point to at the end of the day. 

And sometimes, if you’re honest, there is a tension there.

A wondering, a subtle ache to be recognized, to know that what you’re doing matters beyond the walls you’re inside of. And I don’t think that feeling is something to rush past or dismiss.

But I do think it’s something to gently bring before the Lord. Because He never asked us to live for recognition, He asked us to live before Him.

“Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” 

- MATTHEW 6:4

There is a kind of life that is built mostly in the unseen, and it requires a different kind of surrender.

A surrender of being known in the ways the world measures it.
A surrender of being noticed for what you carry.
A surrender of needing proof that it matters.

And yet…nothing done with Him, for Him, or through Him is ever lost, even when it is never named out loud by anyone else.

It is still seen.
It is still held.
It is still forming something eternal in you.

If this idea of the “hidden life” resonates with you, these books sit beautifully with this week’s reflection:

Every Moment Holy — Douglas Kaine McKelvey
A collection of liturgies that help you see ordinary moments as sacred ground.

Garden City — John Mark Comer
A thoughtful look at calling, work, and what it means to live faithfully in your actual life.

To Hell with the Hustle — Jefferson Bethke
A gentle pushback against constant striving and the pressure to be seen as productive.

Sacred Rhythms — Ruth Haley Barton
A deeper invitation into spiritual practices that form a steady, anchored soul.

They don’t rush the tension away.

They help you sit with it… and slowly see it differently.

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Friday, May 15, 2026

Recipes From Grandma's Kitchen
- A Popular Recipe - Potato Salad


My mom was a good cook in her own right, but after I got married and started cooking for my own family, there was one dish that from thereon she always asked me to make, potato salad.

To be honest, I'm not really sure what it was that she felt made mine so much better, she just said that mine tasted better, and I guess she was on to something, because over the years it has become my most requested dish for pot lucks and parties.  I've even catered a few meals for friends, and it always makes the list of requested dishes.

With the summer season coming up, I'm sure a lot of us will be grilling and potato salad is one of those dishes that always seems to be a good fit, whether you're cooking up burgers or chicken, it's the perfect side dish! So today I thought I'd pass along my take on this classic dish. I hope you'll enjoy it!

 
KIM'S POTATO SALAD

3 lbs yukon gold potatoes
1 teaspoon salt
3/4 to 1 cup Hellman's Mayonnaise
2 teaspoons yellow mustard
4-6 sweet pickles, diced small
1/2 small onion, chopped small
2 teaspoons sugar
Salt and pepper to taste
Smoked paprika to preference

Serves 10-12

Wash, peel and chop you potatoes into cubes. Briefly rinse the potatoes in cold water to remove excess starch. Place potatoes in a large pot, cover with water.  Add 1 teaspoon of salt to the water. Boil until tender. Drain with cool water then place in the refrigerator to cool. This helps them hold their shape and not become mashed potatoes.

Once cooled add mayo, mustard, sweet pickles and onions. Gently mix everything together until the potatoes are well coated and everything is combined.  Add sugar, salt and pepper and stir gently again. Adjust seasoning as desired.  To finish lightly dust the top with smoked paprika.



Monday, May 11, 2026

Homemaking Monday's In May: The Theology of Homemaking:
A Four Part Formation Series - Week Two: Formation Through Repetition

There are days when the repetition of homemaking feels almost unbearable.

You wash the dishes, and by evening the sink is full again.

You fold the laundry, and tomorrow there will be another pile waiting.

You sweep the floor, wipe the counters, make the meals, straighten the rooms—and sometimes it can all begin to feel like a cycle that never truly ends.

And if we’re honest, I think part of what frustrates us is that we long for completion.

We want progress we can measure.

We want visible results.

We want something we can point to and say, “There. I finished it.”

But so much of homemaking refuses to stay finished, and maybe that is why it forms us so deeply.

Because Scripture is full of rhythms that required daily dependence.

Daily manna.
Daily bread.
Daily surrender.

When God provided manna in the wilderness, He did not give His people enough for months at a time. He gave them enough for that day.

Enough to teach them trust.
Enough to teach them reliance.
Enough to teach them to return to Him again tomorrow.

I think homemaking carries a similar invitation. Not just to complete tasks, but to become faithful in the returning.

Returning to serve.
Returning to nurture.
Returning to tend what has been entrusted to you—even when it feels repetitive.

And over time, something quiet begins to happen in us.

The repetition exposes our impatience.

It reveals our resistance.

But it also slowly builds endurance, steadiness, and faithfulness in places that comfort never could.

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, 
for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” 

- GALATIANS 6:9

I don’t think spiritual discipline is formed only in prayer closets and Bible studies.Sometimes it is formed while standing at the kitchen sink again.While making another meal. While tending an ordinary life with consistency when no one is applauding you for it.

And maybe the repetition you want to escape is the very place God is building your faithfulness.

If you’d like to explore this topic more deeply, these books pair beautifully with this week’s reflection:

Liturgy of the Ordinary

The Common Rule

Habits of the Household

Domestic Monastery

Each one offers a gentler way of seeing the rhythms, repetitions, and sacred routines of everyday life.

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